Quotes and anectdotes from the wise to the foolish, and the courageous to the drunk

Francois de La Rochefoucauld Author

  • Gender: Male
  • Citizenship: France
  • Born: Sep 15, 1613
  • Died: Mar 17, 1680

François VI, Duc de La Rochefoucauld, Prince de Marcillac was a noted French author of maxims and memoirs. His is a clear-eyed, worldly view of human conduct that indulges in neither condemnation nor sentimentality. Born in Paris on the Rue des Petits Champs, at a time when the royal court was oscillating between aiding the nobility and threatening it, he was considered an exemplar of the accomplished 17th-century nobleman. Until 1650, he bore the title of Prince de Marcillac.

It is from a weakness and smallness of mind that men are opinionated and we are very loath to believe what we are not able to comprehend. men

There is no disguise which can hide love for long where it exists, or simulate it where it does not. love

We should often feel ashamed of our best actions if the world could see all the motives which produced them. best

It is great folly to wish to be wise all alone. alone, great & wisdom

We come altogether fresh and raw into the several stages of life, and often find ourselves without experience, despite our years. experience

If we are to judge of love by its consequences, it more nearly resembles hatred than friendship. friendship

Women's virtue is frequently nothing but a regard to their own quiet and a tenderness for their reputation. women

Men often pass from love to ambition, but they seldom come back again from ambition to love. love & men

A great many men's gratitude is nothing but a secret desire to hook in more valuable kindnesses hereafter. great & men

There are but very few men clever enough to know all the mischief they do. men

It is a great act of cleverness to be able to conceal one's being clever. great

Heat of blood makes young people change their inclinations often, and habit makes old ones keep to theirs a great while. change & great

Gratitude is merely the secret hope of further favors. hope

Most people know no other way of judging men's worth but by the vogue they are in, or the fortunes they have met with. men

There is no better proof of a man's being truly good than his desiring to be constantly under the observation of good men. men

We are nearer loving those who hate us than those who love us more than we wish. love

However rare true love may be, it is less so than true friendship. friendship & love

It is with an old love as it is with old age a man lives to all the miseries, but is dead to all the pleasures. age & love

We pardon to the extent that we love. love

Few things are impracticable in themselves and it is for want of application, rather than of means, that men fail to succeed. men

When we disclaim praise, it is only showing our desire to be praised a second time. time

It is not enough to have great qualities We should also have the management of them. great

We all have enough strength to endure the misfortunes of others. strength

As great minds have the faculty of saying a great deal in a few words, so lesser minds have a talent of talking much, and saying nothing. great

Some counterfeits reproduce so very well the truth that it would be a flaw of judgment not to be deceived by them. truth

As it is the characteristic of great wits to say much in few words, so small wits seem to have the gift of speaking much and saying nothing. great

Great souls are not those who have fewer passions and more virtues than others, but only those who have greater designs. great

What makes the pain we feel from shame and jealousy so cutting is that vanity can give us no assistance in bearing them. jealousy

There are few virtuous women who are not bored with their trade. women

Nothing is so contagious as example and we never do any great good or evil which does not produce its like. great

In friendship as well as love, ignorance very often contributes more to our happiness than knowledge. friendship, happiness, knowledge & love

We are so used to dissembling with others that in time we come to deceive and dissemble with ourselves. time

It is with true love as it is with ghosts everyone talks about it, but few have seen it. love

Repentance is not so much remorse for what we have done as the fear of the consequences. fear

Absence diminishes mediocre passions and increases great ones, as the wind extinguishes candles and fans fires. great & love

However glorious an action in itself, it ought not to pass for great if it be not the effect of wisdom and intention. great & wisdom

Old age is a tyrant, who forbids, under pain of death, the pleasures of youth. age & death

Those who are incapable of committing great crimes do not readily suspect them in others. great

The defects of the mind, like those of the face, grow worse with age. age

We give advice, but we cannot give the wisdom to profit by it. wisdom

Too great haste to repay an obligation is a kind of ingratitude. great

No men are oftener wrong than those that can least bear to be so. men

Those that have had great passions esteem themselves for the rest of their lives fortunate and unfortunate in being cured of them. great

What seems to be generosity is often no more than disguised ambition, which overlooks a small interest in order to secure a great one. great

Jealousy lives upon doubts. It becomes madness or ceases entirely as soon as we pass from doubt to certainty. jealousy

Few people have the wisdom to prefer the criticism that would do them good, to the praise that deceives them. good & wisdom

Taste may change, but inclination never. change

Good advice is something a man gives when he is too old to set a bad example. good

A true friend is the greatest of all blessings, and that which we take the least care of all to acquire. friendship

There is nothing men are so generous of as advice. men

Only the contemptible fear contempt. fear

One forgives to the degree that one loves. forgiveness

Neither the sun nor death can be looked at with a steady eye. death

The generality of virtuous women are like hidden treasures, they are safe only because nobody has sought after them. women

Many men are contemptuous of riches few can give them away. men

In the misfortunes of our best friends we always find something not altogether displeasing to us. best

One is never fortunate or as unfortunate as one imagines. imagination

Being a blockhead is sometimes the best security against being cheated by a man of wit. best

However greatly we distrust the sincerity of those we converse with, yet still we think they tell more truth to us than to anyone else. truth

It is easier to know men in general, than men in particular. men

You can find women who have never had an affair, but it is hard to find a woman who has had just one. women

There is only one kind of love, but there are a thousand imitations. love

To know how to hide one's ability is great skill. great

In most of mankind gratitude is merely a secret hope of further favors. hope

Flattery is a kind of bad money, to which our vanity gives us currency. money

On neither the sun, nor death, can a man look fixedly. death

We always love those who admire us, but we do not always love those whom we admire. love

Hope, deceiving as it is, serves at least to lead us to the end of our lives by an agreeable route. hope

One can find women who have never had one love affair, but it is rare indeed to find any who have had only one. women

We only acknowledge small faults in order to make it appear that we are free from great ones. great

There are a great many men valued in society who have nothing to recommend them but serviceable vices. great, men & society

Men give away nothing so liberally as their advice. men

We have no patience with other people's vanity because it is offensive to our own. patience

Philosophy finds it an easy matter to vanquish past and future evils, but the present are commonly too hard for it. future

If we have not peace within ourselves, it is in vain to seek it from outward sources. peace

We may seem great in an employment below our worth, but we very often look little in one that is too big for us. great

We may sooner be brought to love them that hate us, than them that love us more than we would have them do. love

Jealousy is bred in doubts. When those doubts change into certainties, then the passion either ceases or turns absolute madness. change & jealousy

We are all strong enough to bear other men's misfortunes. men

True love is like ghosts, which everyone talks about and few have seen. love

They that apply themselves to trifling matters commonly become incapable of great ones. great

The happiness and misery of men depend no less on temper than fortune. happiness & men

Perfect courage is to do without witnesses what one would be capable of doing with the world looking on. courage

Our aversion to lying is commonly a secret ambition to make what we say considerable, and have every word received with a religious respect. respect

We seldom find any person of good sense, except those who share our opinions. good

Passion makes idiots of the cleverest men, and makes the biggest idiots clever. men

We should often blush for our very best actions, if the world did but see all the motives upon which they were done. best

Jealousy contains more of self-love than of love. jealousy & love

If we resist our passions, it is more due to their weakness than our strength. strength

Old men are fond of giving good advice to console themselves for their inability to give bad examples. men

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